"LoveHate Thing" is a soulful reflection on the paradox of success, particularly how rising to the top often breeds passive-aggressive resentment from those once close to you. Released in May 2013 as the second single from Wale's third album, The Gifted , the track features smooth vocals from Sam Dew and a nostalgic, 70s-soul-inspired production. Core Themes & Meaning
The song has been compared to Jay-Z's "Dear Summer" for its reflective, slightly defensive tone and use of subliminal commentary regarding local DMV-area conflicts. Wale - LoveHate Thing feat. Sam Dew
Wale addresses the "crabs-in-a-barrel" mentality prevalent in his hometown and the industry. He famously raps, "I lost a lot of friends and they ain't even dead," highlighting the emotional distance that develops as goals are reached. "LoveHate Thing" is a soulful reflection on the
The lyrics explore the cyclical nature of public and personal perception: "Love you then they hate you / Then they love you again". Production & Impact Production & Impact Experience the soulful visuals and
Experience the soulful visuals and heartfelt lyrics in the official music video: Wale - LoveHate Thing feat. Sam Dew [Official Music Video] YouTube• Jun 25, 2013
It reached No. 89 on the Billboard Hot 100 and was certified Platinum by the RIAA in June 2025.
The official music video , directed by Sarah McColgan, features Wale performing on an NYC rooftop with a backing band, interspersed with scenes of his hometown, Washington D.C..
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