Jay ends up kissing Matthew, leading to a surprise make-out session behind the bleachers. This is a pivotal moment for Matthew's character development. Secondary Subplots
Andrew, desperate to "out-perv" Missy, admits to masturbating to a picture of Nick's sister, Leah, in Nick's own house. This revelation causes a major rift in their friendship. [S2E9] Smooch or Share
To break the awkwardness caused by the Shame Wizard's meddling, Nick invents "Smooch or Share"—a twist on Spin the Bottle where players must either kiss the person the bottle lands on or answer a deeply personal question. Jay ends up kissing Matthew, leading to a
Critics and viewers from IMDb and Rotten Tomatoes often highlight this as one of the season's strongest episodes for its balance of vulgarity and genuine growth. Reviewers at Wherever I Look noted that the episode provides necessary catharsis as the characters finally push back against the Shame Wizard's influence. Big Mouth: Season 2/ Episode 9 "Smooch Or Share" - Recap This revelation causes a major rift in their friendship
Jessi becomes disillusioned with her Hormone Monstress, Connie, feeling that Connie’s influence has turned her into someone she doesn't like. She eventually "breaks up" with Connie to try and rediscover herself.
The Shame Wizard meets his match in Coach Steve, who is completely incapable of feeling shame. Seeing Steve's immunity allows the other kids to realize the Wizard's power is only as strong as they let it be.