: You don't have to agree with everyone's choices, but you should always want them to be happy. As Jay learned, sometimes the best thing you can do is just show up and keep your house open for the uninvited hangouts.
: When your partner has a problem, don’t solve it. Just listen and say, "I know, that’s so frustrating".
: Always look people in the eye, even if they are blind. modern family
: Be wary of dangerous retirement hobbies (like Jay's flying lessons) unless you want a spouse in a total tailspin of worry.
Watch Phil Dunphy demonstrate the essential 'support over solutions' technique to keep the peace at home: : You don't have to agree with everyone's
: If you're trying to declutter, expect resistance. Luke and Phil probably can't bear to part with anything.
: Life is full of it. As the series finale reminds us, you can fight change or make the best of it—and it’s much easier when you have people who love you helping you face it. Quick Troubleshooting Tips Just listen and say, "I know, that’s so frustrating"
: Notice that even the kids (like Alex or Manny) are often the wisest people in the room. Treat every family member's perspective with equal importance.