He Won't Go -

Before you resort to extreme measures, try the graduated approach. Most people aren't being malicious; they’re just comfortable.

If you find yourself stuck with a recurring lingerer, use this quick checklist before your next encounter: He Won't Go

Here is how to handle the lingerer without losing your sanity (or your manners). 1. The Art of the "Soft Exit" Before you resort to extreme measures, try the

Be vulnerable about your own needs. "I’ve hit my social wall for the night and really need some quiet time." Most reasonable people will respect a boundary when it's stated clearly. 3. Dealing with the "Emotional Lingerer" Before you resort to extreme measures

Whether it’s a friend who doesn’t pick up on social cues, an ex who is lingering in your life, or a houseguest who has officially overstayed their welcome, the "He Won't Go" scenario is an awkward rite of passage.

You don't owe anyone instant access to your time. It’s okay to leave messages on read or mute stories.