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Harvey claims a man isn't ready for a serious relationship until he has figured out three things: (His identity) What he does (His career/purpose)

A major theme is that men will only do what you allow them to do. If you don't have a "price of admission," men will treat you like a bargain. Act like a Lady, Think like a man

Men who are looking for a long-term partner and are willing to follow your rules to keep you. 4. Setting the "Standards and Requirements" Harvey claims a man isn't ready for a

Harvey argues that a man’s requirements are simpler than most women think. To feel fulfilled and stay committed, he needs: Harvey suggests that women should wait 90 days

This is perhaps the most famous takeaway. Harvey suggests that women should wait 90 days before having sex with a new partner. The logic? Most "players" or "fish" (see below) won't wait that long. It serves as a vetting process to see if the man is interested in you or just the physical benefit. 3. "Sports Fish" vs. "Keepers" Harvey categorizes men into two types: